Domina Erzulie

Last post here...

2009-03-11T17:21:00.002-04:00

This my last post here just to tell everyone that I moved my blog to another location. I integrated it to my website and the new URL is:
http://www.dominaerzulie.com/myblog

Answer to Kolan Blanc

2009-02-25T16:09:00.003-05:00

I told my sub on the same morning that I was going to give him a spanking he would not forget!
He simply replied yes Mistress!
That evening when we arrived at the loft, I took the time to chat with some friends and to have him serve me a rhum and coke.
My sub was all that time on a short leash, on his knees, at my feet.
Later I asked him to fetch the bag full of whips and paddles.
I proceeded on tying him up on a bench! his underwear hanging at his ankles! His buttocks exposed to everyone in the room.
I love humiliating a man that way, it gives me a warm feeling.
I then started to hit him with my hands, I love using my hands, I am quite good at it!
My subs was by then already asking me when I was going to stop.
My answer: When I decided it was enough!
Then I proceed with a paddle. I took my time with the blows, every stroke I gave him, I gave for his own good. Every stroke I gave, as I was watching the color of his buttocks getting redder by the minute, gave me great satisfaction... It made me feel warm inside. Why? because he is my slave, that means no safewords, because I do it freely for my own satisfaction and show him not to embarass me ever again!
I then proceeded with a leather flogger. I love this toy!
I told him the real fun was just beginning! He started to cry and begging me to stop... that he had learned his lesson!
But you see, I had to live with the embarassment of what he has done! I had to make him feel really sorry for what he did! I had to take the time to calm down a whole week before getting to that moment. Why? Because I wanted to give him this lesson without anger, because I wanted it to be out of sheer pleasure! And now it was and I was not about to stop just yet!
He might have gotten a good 500 blows from the flogger I don't really know! But when I finished with him my goal was attained.
For one, he was crying... Two, he was thanking me so that everyone can hear... Three, he would certainly not be able to sit without pain for the next 3 weeks! Still, he was lucky I had to stop because the security guard at that place did not yet know who I was yet, and thought it was too much and made me stop... But that will not happen again!
To my suprise, when I turned around people werw clapping and congratulating me for the best spanking they had witnessed in a while! Especially because I did it with a large smile on my face!

Can a fantasy survive a real punishment? Options

2009-02-14T10:59:00.008-05:00

When I last saw you, Mistress, you told me your personal sub had earned a real punishment. He was going to get it that evening. You said he wouldn’t be able to sit down for a month.

On my walk home that afternoon, I couldn’t stop thinking about what your sub must have been feeling from the moment he woke up that morning, knowing what was coming. I don't need to ask what he felt like afterwards

I would greatly appreciate hearing first of all how the punishment proceeded and, secondly, how you, as a domme, felt while giving such a punishment, compared to the kind of "friendly" (but certainly painful ☺ ) punishments you give me and other clients.

The reason my ears picked up when you mentioned the real punishment is that as long as I've had my spanking fantasies, the wish to be truly punished has been present. I realized while thinking about the real punishment you were going to deliver that I have two kinds of spanking fantasies, although they definitely overlap.

Type 1) Sometimes I imagine the woman gives me a hard spanking just because she gets off giving it, which is partly why I’m asking what you feel when giving a real punishment. Afterwards, she might fuck me if she feels like it. I am a passive participant. She is using me, although I like that. This scenario is probably what I would like to experience in a relationship.

Type 2) Other times, I am punished because I have done something bad, or simply because I am a "bad" soul, ridden with some kind of nameless guilt. The person giving the punishment is always a beautiful woman, often in uniform, but there are few or no sexual overtones, unlike the first kind of scenario.

Until I got my first spanking from a domme 3½ years ago, I always craved the “real punishment”, Type 2. But now that I’ve had a great many sessions, I find when I crave a good spanking it is more often likely to be the Type 1 spanking. They hurt like hell sometimes but they’re fun, and to varying degrees, erotic. I'm generally feeling better about myself in recent years than I used to, so I'm guessing this is why I now mostly think in terms of the "friendlier" beatings.

That said, the fact remains that when I learned that you were about to give your sub a real punishment, I got aroused again at the thought of receiving one. I realized that the feeling was much like what I felt when I went to receive my very first spanking from a domme. I felt some fear as I walked to the dungeon that night. I didn't know what to expect. I remember that walk, and my first sight of a domme in person, vividly, not just because she was beautiful, but because fear and the unknown got the adrenalin running.

The difference now is that I no longer feel any fear. Being spanked by a beautiful domme has simply become my favorite activity in life, and if I were rich I'd have at least a session a week.

I know you could break me with just 10 or 20 rapid, full-force strokes of a paddle or whip, but that wouldn't allow me to fully experience the psychological aspect of the punishment, I would imagine you would get nothing out of that either, but I don't know.

Besides unbearable pain, there is something else I am afraid of about a real punishment. A domme once told me about a very regular client (once a week) who one day announced he wanted to be tied up and whipped by two dommes until he "broke". There was to be no safe word in effect. They did as he asked and left him crying uncontrollably. He was begging them to stop but they followed his instructions. He never came back and they never heard from him again.

What I keep wondering is, did "the real thing, the real punishment" kill his fantasy? If so, I don't want it.

I would love to hear any thoughts you and others might have about the last point in particular. After all these years, I think I'd be quite lost without it.

As always, thanks for sharing.

Posted by Kolan Blanc on my Google group

Twitter

2009-02-05T10:06:00.001-05:00

Hi everyone

I am now a member of twitter! Go check it out. One more thing added to my network. So I am hoping to make some great friends.

Québec à la fin février prochain/Quebec City at the end of February

2009-01-15T10:13:00.004-05:00

Avis au soumis de la Capitale et des environs, je serai à Québec le 27 et 28 février prochain! Si vous désirez une séance avec moi, vous pouvez me contacter par mon site internet www.dominaerzulie.com.

I will be in Quebec City on February 27th and 28th. If you want to have a session with me you can contact me through my website www.dominaerzulie.com.

Club Sin

2009-01-08T20:57:00.003-05:00

Hello

There you go! it's going to happen... no turning back now! I am doing a show at Club Sin on April 3rd. I am both excited and nervous about it. I didn't think that I would get around to do it, since I kept on putting it off. Anyway here's the link! http://clubsin.ca/intro.htm
I hope to you will come and support me.

Happy new year!

2008-12-31T22:12:00.003-05:00

Hello everyone,

It has been awhile since my last post! Although I did wish to all of my subs happy holidays by sending them a personnal note, I would like to do it here again, especially to those whom I might have inadvertantly neglected. Happy new year 2009!

P.S. Foot Fetish Extravaganza will be held on the 4th March 2009. There will be a new Website dedicated exclusively to this event, it will be ready in about 4 weeks: www.voodoofetish.com. In the meantime you will find all the informations about the event on my main Website www.dominaerzulie.com.

Photo shoot for Fetish Cult Sirens

2008-12-15T18:50:00.006-05:00

I had a very enjoyable photo shoot yesterday for Fetish Cult Sirens which is a new part of my friend Ben's Cult Sirens site. I can't wait to see the pics!

My female submissive and I

2008-11-27T12:11:00.004-05:00

Hi everyone, I had a photo shoot yesterday with my female submissive and there will soon be some pictures of me and her on the my Website. They should be on the site by the end of next week, so check it out!

Clips4sale

2008-11-24T12:34:00.007-05:00

Hi everyone, I am going to get down to business in the next couple of weeks before the holidays...So I'm looking for subs who are willing to receive me at their home to shoot for my clips4sale video store.

Mon nouveau groupe Google / My new Google group

2008-11-24T02:47:00.001-05:00

Voilà je viens de créer ce groupe dans le but d'échanger, d'apprendre et de partager mes idées sur le merveilleux monde du BDSM.
I just created a group on Google to learn and share my views about BDSM.
Please come by often, as I intend to share my daily activities here and on my new Group "Domination-BDSM". http://groups.google.com/group/domination-bdsm.

In Toronto

2008-11-19T18:27:00.003-05:00

Hello!

I'm posting this from my hotel in Toronto. I'll be here until Saturday morning... I just went to try the gym facilities. I needed to move and exercise lightly after over a week of inactivity due to my car accident. Hopefully, I'll get the chance to have a few BDSM sessions during my stay. Mistress Patricia Marsh has agreed to let me use her facilities while here.

Foot Fetish Eztravaganza

2008-11-12T22:00:00.004-05:00

I'm organizing an evening of Foot Fetish and light Domination called "Foot Fetish Eztravaganza". The event is on December 3rd at 8:00 pm until 1:00 am.

Car accident... Ouch!

2008-11-12T21:55:00.002-05:00

I had a car accident yesterday afternoon... Someone smashed his car into my door and really hit me hard. I'm all stiff and feel pain in my neck and all the way down my back... It's a good thing the guy was driving a small Aveo! I wouldn't be here typing this had it been a big car or a mini van! I would be, at best, lying on a bed at the hospital. I hope to be OK soon as I have so many projects on the run...

Pictures from Color Mundo

2008-10-02T00:41:00.007-04:00

Here I am at the Color Mundo last June disguised in some strange alien/elf character... Posing with me is Gaëlle, the artist who did that spectacular transformation!

Photo shoot

2008-09-21T10:46:00.003-04:00

Today I'll take part in what should be a fun photo shoot. The theme is "vampires" and was initiated by my good friend Ben at Cult Sirens. He's a web site designer (he did mine) and he has started different new projects lately and I'm happy to be part of this and help him in his new endeavours.

Interrupted dinner

2008-09-21T10:27:00.003-04:00

It was about 8:30 yesterday evening... I was sitting at the table with my loved one and about to eat a delicious chicken and lamb Moroccan couscous with a nice bottle of Côtes-du-Rhône. Yes, I admit it, I'm a carnivore! :)

My telephone rings... I don't recognize the number but answer the call anyway... Mistake! It was an idiot probably wanking and the only thing he said was: "May I serve you?" Not even a hello to start with! I just said "NO!" and hung up... Not happy with my answer, the guy text me a message saying "please, I'm on my knees I want to serve you!" to which I replied that if send me $1000 immediately by PayPal I will let him serve me... He replied "$1000?"... That was his last message, phew!!! Why did I bother to take the call in the first place knowing I was not able to session before Monday anyway? This is a rethorical question, please don't try to answer it!!! ;)

Back at last!

2008-09-09T12:06:00.003-04:00

I stopped writing on my blog for too long! What was supposed to be a little break during summer time has become a long leave of absence! Starting today, I will write more often to let you know about what's going on on my side...Take care everyone!

xxx

Color Mundo was great fun!

2008-06-17T13:04:00.003-04:00

Finally, I didn't participate in the competition on Sunday because I ended up working Saturday evening and I was just too tired to stand there for hours at a time! I ended up going on Monday and model for a demonstration of badypainting along with 5 or 6 other models. I had the chance to work with Gaelle who transformed me into a totally strange character... something between an elf and strange alien you would see in Star Trek (except for the naked breasts) ;)

I'm really looking forward to see the pictures... we took a bunch inside as well as others outside, right there on De La Commune street in Old Montreal. At some point, there was a homeless man that was sleeping on a bench that woke up and saw me... He blinked two or three time, probably because of the sun but also in disbelief! He probably thought to himself that he should stop drinking that cheap boose! LOL

Color Mundo

2008-06-06T10:37:00.004-04:00

I'm very excited... I'll model for the hairbrush body painting competition during the Color Mundo make-up show taking place at Marché Bonsecours in Old Montreal June 8th and 9th. I might have the chance to work with the reputed Alex Hansen, winner of last year competition and internationally known for his work... I'm sooo looking forward to it!

Back from Quebec City

2008-05-31T18:56:00.003-04:00

I came back today... I had a very great time there, but I'm very tired... I guess going to bed very late and having two sessions yesterday didn't help! My sessions were great and I just put a the first part of a video clip with Bianca, a pretty female submissive.

Off to Quebec City...

2008-05-29T08:40:00.003-04:00

I'm going to Quebec City this morning for business and pleasure... I'll visit friends of mine and I will have the occasion to do a couple of BDSM sessions on Friday. In one of them, I will have the opportunity to dominate a female sub! Mmmm... Delightful! I'll be back Saturday... I will have new material to update my clips4sale store so stay tuned!

I received a very nice gift today!

2008-05-21T23:07:00.003-04:00

I'm so thrilled!!! Robert B, one of my very good and regular submissives, really pleased me today. He bought me a very nice black latex catsuit and a red & black latex corset to go with it. It makes a terrific outfit! Just in time for my photo shoot next week... I already have the long black and red latex gloves... All I need now is the hood with the cat ears and the black latex boots to complete the outfit! Any volunteers?? :) Naw! I'm just kidding about the hood, I think it would over do it... besides, it would mess my hair too much!! ;) But I'm serious about the boots though! LOL

I will let you know when the photos are ready... I might post one or two here, but definitely will update my gallery on my website as well as my MM profile!

Some fun in the park...

2008-05-16T14:35:00.002-04:00

I went to a public park yesterday afternoon with slave Mark... We brought a video camera and at some point we did a mini foot fetish session that we recorded. A couple of guys were watching us from a small hill about 50 meters away (for my american friends, that's about 160 feet). I don't think they were expecting to see that kind of scene in this park. They watch for 5-10 minutes and seemed to have enjoyed what they saw. I'm such an exhibitionist at times!! Anyway, the video sequence is now up on my Clips4Sale store...

Pierre, the guy with the wolf mask comes again!

2008-05-06T00:00:00.003-04:00

First time this guy applied for the position as my personal slave, I was so bored with his application that I didn’t even bother answering him… Instead I put a post about him on this blog! One would have thought that the absence of a reply would have switched a light on… Wrong! Instead he wrote again not even mentioning his first email; this time he told me that his penis is 7 ½” long and that he gets a lot of “pre-cum” when he’s very excited and wants me to write him back. I guess he assumed it’s something that I would find appealing or exciting… Loser!

Now, when I’m punishing someone, it’s never out of anger! But for this guy, I feel like making an exception. So I will take some moments of my precious time to answer him here and send him the link after! Maybe he’ll get it this time…

Here’s my answer Pierre: I need a slave who is intelligent, who knows how to behave and correspond with a Domina, someone who’s well groomed and puts my own pleasure first. Obviously you don’t possess any of those qualities. And I couldn’t care less about your penis, especially if you wet my floor with your “pre-cum”!! My advice: get off your fantasy land Pierre!

Buying ropes

2008-05-04T09:52:00.010-04:00

I decided to go buy some ropes yesterday in order to practice my bondage skills at home. So I went to a climbing equipment store to get them as I knew they would have what I was looking for. I had written down some specs in my black notebook on the length, width and type of ropes that I wanted. So there I was standing in front of a display of all the different types of ropes they have… There were two customers at the counter waiting to get some ropes as well, for different reasons of course! The clerk approaches me to offer some help. So I took my notebook out and proceeded to ask some questions about the ropes. Then I asked for different lengths, and each length had a specific colour so that I could easily identify which one is which. Of course the lengths I asked for were too short for climbing. The clerk looked puzzled and asked what I wanted to do with the ropes… So I hesitated a bit and answered: Shibari! He looked even more puzzled, lifted his eyebrows and asked: “what’s Shibari?” (I think he thought for a second it was a rock climbing technique he didn’t know about!!!). Then I thought what the hell… I said it’s for bondage! There was a moment of silence and a look of embarrassment on his face… Then he said he had to give something to another customer and that he’d be back in a few minutes to cut the ropes for me. The two other guys at the counter smiled and chuckled trying, unsuccessfully, to hide their amusement! Next time, I think I will buy longer ropes and cut them myself to avoid the embarrassment (not mine… theirs!).

time flies...

2008-04-29T00:50:00.010-04:00

I neglected my blog in the past two weeks... Oh well, I'm here now, that's what counts! I've been busy lately, but that's no excuse! I'll try to write more in the next few weeks.

I'm currently trying to find a personal sub/servant and I'm often getting discouraged at the answers I receive! I put an ad in a few places on the net and the answers I get are often not appropriate... It's even funny sometimes how pathetic they can get... You would think that if someone wants to find a Mistress, he would try to impress on the first contact, right? WRONG!!! I get many one line e-mails with sentences... like this one for instance: "I'd like to be your slave once a week, for all your desires Mistress. I'm a 45 y.o. man, tall and slim, discrete". And he joins a picture wearing some kind of a wolf mask/hood at a Halloween party.

Wow! I'm so enthusiastic now... I can't wait to find more about him!! It's like applying for a job without sending a resume!!! Who would even consider hiring you? Did I tell you before I was sarcastic?

I'm back!!

2008-04-13T10:34:00.004-04:00

I feel rested today and I'm doing much better health wise... After doing sessions almost back to back all day on Thursday and considering I was still sick, I ended feeling extremelly tired on Friday. Luckily, the only session I had scheduled on that day got cancelled!

Later on today I will shoot some video clips with slave Mark to add to my clips4sale store... After that I'll take it easy for the rest of the day. Tonight there's the Canadiens game against the Boston Bruins... We're leading the series 2-0!! Go Habs Go! :)

I need to get better soon...

2008-04-09T01:59:00.008-04:00

When I started this blog a few days ago, I meant to write something almost every day but I got sick almost at the same time I started it... Nothing to worry about, just a throat and ear infection that 10 days of antibiotics should take care of. In the mean time, I feel dizzy because my inner ears play tricks on me. I started taking the antibiotics yesterday, so I should feel much better in 2-3 days. I hope so as I have 3 sessions booked on Thursday.

I'd like some information please...

2008-04-05T16:49:00.005-04:00

What is it with some men…? Why are they calling me to ask information about my services when I have a very detailed website with pictures and all… Just to hear the sound of my voice? Come on! I can understand if someone has a very specific scenario and wants to know if I will do it, but otherwise don’t ask me what I do or what I don’t. I took a lot of my precious time to build a pretty nice website. The other day a guy calls me and says that he really likes the way I look and that he wants to see me. Then he starts asking all kinds of questions that are already well answered on my site. So I ask him politely to go back to my site and read it again. He answered that he didn’t have a computer! Some when I reminded him that he had just told me that he liked my pictures he went… huh… and hung up! That’s what I hate the most… so many callers have absolutely no intention of taking an appointment; they’re still just at the fantasy level or just wanking to the sound of my voice… And they’re other callers expecting me to tell them about domination and BDSM… Do your homework and read about it! But please, don’t download those XXX movies where a porn star (that’s a misnomer) becomes all of a sudden a Dominatrix!! (I won’t give names here; the list would be too long…) That’s not what BDSM is all about! Don’t get me wrong! I love being a Dominatrix and I even confess that I get very turned on sometimes in certain circumstances (I will elaborate on that another time!). But I hate the time wasters! I guess it comes with the occupation, but I just needed to rant about it!!!

What I like about being Dominant

2008-04-05T16:46:00.003-04:00

Here’s a peek of who I am and why I love being a Dominant woman. What you have to understand is that I love the sensation of dominating a man, to see him crawl at my feet and act for the sole purpose of pleasing me. For as long I can remember I have always been that way. In short, I’m proud to be a woman, I feel great about who I am and I love the fact that I can make a man feel like dust under my feet and that he’s happy of that fact.

A good Dominatrix to me is a person that respects her slaves/submissives, one who can help them evolved, teach them to accept themselves for who they are and help them find happiness in their submission. A good Dominatrix is also someone that knows how to get the respect she deserves. I never yell at a submissive, in fact I would hate having to yell at someone to make him understand what I want! In other words, if your fantasy is the interrogation drill with someone yelling at your face, I’m not the one you’re looking for. I speak softly but I carry a big stick!!

Likewise a good submissive knows that he can find happiness in pleasing his mistress. A good submissive must accept to be humiliated by and for his Domina, without ever being ashamed of being a submissive. He knows he must respect and obey his Domina. I always respect the limits of my submissives, however I want him to trust me and surrender to me.

My very 1st post

2008-04-04T19:02:00.006-04:00

Well, here it is... I decided that it was about time that I start a real blog. I will try to stay in touch with you as often as possible.